Well, all parts of the bed are mine, and just because this is where she wants to be at night...well...if I get there first, this side is mine as is the pillow.
If the sheets are newly changed that day, and newly turned down to receive ME, then I am there to enjoy the cool fresh percale. It's all for me, right? if I am correct and usually I am.
Picture me up there on the pillow about 1130 at night..taking up a third of it, and picture me on it facing downward and my head and shoulder is even with her head and shoulder. The purring just enchants her as it is right against her head; tis true, If I am sitting in a catloaf position, sometimes my right front leg and paw slips downward and truly...honestly, coincidentally, my paw slips right into her ear. I let it stay about 45 seconds and take it out but it slips back in. After a minute, mom turns her head sideways to get her ear clear of soft snowy paws. Then she falls fast asleep.
Just my Katie on the Spot service, Ma'am. No charge. You're family.