Kitties, I insist on grooming mom. Even with the bandana on her head I insist on washing even that. And when she says no...I just go down and wash her arm. If she tucks that in, I wash the sheet. She said that interrupts her sleep badly and that she has a hard time going back to sleep. Why she can't join me for my all day nap is not clear to me! She said I may put my toys in a bandana, attach it to a stick, and sling it over my shoulder and visit one of you to hone my skills. I love that suggestion of "Katie's Kuts" for my business name when I get my start with my new enterprise! She doesn't appreciate me.